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R more than anyone is arguably the key person in one’s life with the responsibility for my being here these past 20+ years and yesterday I attended his funeral. But we met for the first time 10 years earlier when perhaps he also played a crucial part in terms of my standing in my former job before I moved country... an important reason being his relatively poor grasp of English, his fourth language after two of the Scandinavian tongues and his first foreign language German, and my knowledge of one of his two first languages because as a young man during my years as a student I had lived and worked here, before subsequently meeting my wife in a London night club when she for her part was a student in UK practicing her English, her 4th language too, upon graduating nursing college back home.

So as a back-room guy with a knowledge of Scandinavia I was sent with the then Marketing Director, a guy called Dick who during WW ll was England's youngest serving Lieutenant Commander in The Royal Navy, and proceeded to play host to our customers on their own ground for the first time by staying locally and inviting the people to dinner, an event which clearly impressed Dick for that first meeting was repeated every 6 months for a total of 13 consecutive visits during which time we went from the position of minor supplier with around 40% of their business to 100%, when Dick retired and his Dutch successor no longer required my services...

When R, as CEO, took early retirement to make way for a younger man he visited us in UK and demanded my presence as interpreter at his meetings with our board of directors. Before his departure my wife and I got to accompany R and his wife, H, to London for an evening at the theatre when we all enjoyed the musical Evita followed by dinner at a rather posh restaurant. And at his last visit March 30th my diary records his last visit in 1987 which would fit with his reaching 60 earlier that month… 

By this time my fortunes with the UK company had undergone some fundamental changes for the better, commensurate with the departure of most of the old board following some disastrous decisions the new Marketing Director and his Production Director colleague had made concerning the line of business our Scandinavian customers and others in the US and Europe were engaged in, when quality had suffered to the point of being returned unfit for its intended purpose… With the take-over of the company the new board together with my R and D Director, who escaped criticism for the simple reason we had been excluded from developing that part of the business, and no doubt as a consequence I was then promoted to head up the task of having it reinstated as overall Project Coordinator.

R’s successor B then, in a manner of speaking at R’s suggestion, began a process which led to my being poached so he told me later, making overtures to the effect I should move company and join the Scandinavians from my position as R and D Manager, which in the fullness of time I decided to do, but only once I too was offered an R and D Directorship, or more precisely a Joint Directorship together with at the time the incumbent my partner, the old R and D Director who was also due to retire shortly thereafter himself.

Such life changing events only appear to be significant with the passage of time when one can look back with the benefit of hindsight and R, whom I would describe as a belt and braces type of person, who fate chose to lead the company in the tumultuous times of the 1980s, from its stature of perhaps the second smallest company in the business to its position today which, with acquisitions of competitor companies, has grown to become the second largest world leader company today if indeed not the biggest: in no small measure attributable to people of his stature and foresight. 

R's dear wife H who in the intervening years has become a dear friend of both my wife and I asked me about representation at his funeral gathering from the company we both served, R of course serving for most of his working life when almost apologetically I had to tell her no-one was present except of course for myself... Have a good day everyone, what a great day for being alive still!   

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