A wayward growing up..? 18 3 6 (18) 25 1 31

Well I don't know what it was like in France for example but when I was a kid growing up in suburban North West England most of the kids were what you have to describe as somewhat wayward apart from kids like my older brother for he was more reserved and didn't mix so much with all the other kids as I did...

My condition wasn't helped by the fact that our father didn't return home from the War with all the other fathers in 1945 and thereafter because I could have benefited from a stronger hand to rein me in at times, though most of the mischief we got up to was harmless enough. It was just that looking back on it now I can't believe we survived that kind of childhood. I mean like having to go to the loo when there wasn't one for miles around and not being able to do it in a sanitary way: washing one's hands and stuff..? Of course all the kids in the neighbourhood used to get "worms" from time to time which could be seen squirming in and out of one's faeces, when these would be reported to one's mother in my case, and she would take the requisite action: supplying the de-worming powder or whatever, a common remedy one would buy from a herbalist or some such corner shop, no need to go troubling a doctor of medicine for such trivia, amongst a hoard of stuff that could go wrong with growing up. Measles mumps chicken pox coughs and colds ear aches were also common place. Occasionally one heard of some kid or other being asthmatic but that was a rarity.

Now fast forward to the early part of the 21st century and every other child seems to come down with one type of allergy or another and one gets to challenge the circumstances in which people grow up today compared to my day all those years ago beginning in war torn Britain..? Getting worms and the like as a child is now being said to do wonders for one's immune system for the rest of one's life..?

A-E my wife being born here in Scandinavia of more well to do parents and being a girl into the bargain had an altogether more sheltered upbringing and whether as a consequence she grew up with all kinds of allergies, although in the years after I met her, I can’t recall them being so serious as they are today. Now when she is unable to put her hands in water, and since Christmastime when she picked up a chest infection visiting our younger son and his family during a pre-Christmas visit to UK, which just this past week has begun to subside with some chance of permanence..? In the meantime it was as if it was too much for her to go on living in our house of 29 years: there was something that was causing her to experience breathing difficulties as evidenced by being happier outside that inside the house..?

Well I have done my best to help her over these difficulties and began by clearing our living spaces of all the books rugs carpets cluttering the place, and in a word will end in the biggest of spring cleans the house has known since we moved in here. Yesterday she had our Insurers’ Inspectors visit our house taking measurements of moisture levels throughout its wooden construction when they discovered some mould in a small area of the outside cellar wall, which they advised would need to be treated with a chlorine-based cleaner..? It is as if my wife is gifted in her sense of smell to be like one of those dogs which sniffs out drugs at airports, her nose and respiratory system has become so sensitized..?

Perhaps I should have given this blog an opposing title but on the other hand I am happy to stay in the house and engage in the jobs like washing the dishes, and getting on with the job of spring cleaning my study when for a few hours I am here alone which is how I like to be: my wife out in the fresh air with her girlfriends taking exercise..? Later in the afternoon I shall be ready to take my daily constitutional walk when she can have our house to herself. Have a good day everyone as I hope you too have a spouse of the right fit for you: be you an allergenic type like my wife or on the other hand perhaps someone of a more wayward disposition like me? hahaha  

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

No blogs without their bloggers..? 18 1 19 (16) 25 2 18

Or Fillings 16 9 14 (8) 25 1 21

When I last visited a Rotary Club Meeting...25 3 18