Kat..? 16 7 26 (8) 25 1 23

When I met Kat it was at a youth hostel and I asked her what had she been up to, to which she responded "I've been grouse beating!" Then I said "You what?", not once but possibly three times before I fully grasped the meaning of her Scottish exclamation...A few moments later milling about the kitchen as we were at the time with quite a number of other hostellers all earnestly engaged in preparing their evening meals with an urgency which betrayed the fact that everyone else had had good days out on the hills too, I was about to bump into Kat once again when I said to her "I was once an elk beater!" Then it was her turn to exclaim "You what?" possibly 3 times before she understood my English-cum-Finnish accent...

Thereafter we got on famously as the saying would have it, as I recall very few misunderstandings to follow... She a somewhat taller person than I – who once used to think himself of median height for a man though with serious old age creeping on I have to admit to perhaps shrinking somewhat from my once dizzy height...hahaha – was staying at the hostel whilst working as a beater most week days whilst I was using the hostel as a base with frequent excursions away to stay in bothies a few nights and then return to refresh my supplies of food, have showers and generally chill out from my hill-side forays... all of which ensured we were to continue for some days ahead bumping into one another...

So it was I learned that she had been beating in the vicinity of some hills I had just climbed from a nearby bothy and she in turn told me of the dignitaries in her party of Grouse hunters with odd snippets of conversation she had exchanged with some of them… I had earlier taken pics of her for my pic site on Myspace where from the time of our meeting were to be added pics of perhaps a dozen other people I had met on the hill side or in the hostels and bothies where I stayed and so on this our last meeting – she just returning from another day of beating me just back from another bothy — I took the odd additional pic and then she offered “Why don’t we go drink tea together as the day was not yet full and the hostels and bunk houses some way off opening…

Well it was a special kind of friendship for me who was becoming used to the idea of losing friends for one reason or another rather than making new ones whilst she a young lady just left secondary school, probably after completing A-levels and doing her first job but with an ease of conversation that struck me as different… Over the tea we each talked about the learning difficulties we had experienced in school and she related how she had on more than one occasion been labelled dyslexic when for the first time in my life I reflected perhaps I too had been dyslexic? How reading for my school pal Brian and I, who for a good many years were bottom and next to the bottom of our class of 32 children had been very difficult and how our head mistress, a Mrs Grundy had each week as we struggled taken us to the front of the rest of the class to rap us across our knuckles with a wooden 12 inch ruler as a form of inducement to greater effort! That and my habit of getting place names wrong like how another teacher, a Miss Metcalf some two or three years later asked me whether she might be permitted to tell the rest of the class how I had confused the Magna Carter with the Jolly Carter, the name of a nearby Public House, perhaps in part to do with the fact I also had great difficulties remembering anything to do with history..? The uproarious laughter which ensued when I acceded to her request was I guess only to be expected! hahaha

Well Kat became my special friend from that trip also on F-book, and we talked of one day climbing a hill together... And so began a year in my life when I would make a record number of new friends there and when the number of requests to learn the name of my BlogSpot would increase also to the extent that I am now considering giving its location to people as a real possibility. Have a good day everyone and keep hitting the blogs if you deem this to be a good idea…hahaha 


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